Seller quoted 7-15 days but it's been 45 — when is delay unreasonable enough to dispute?
A 45-day delay is already well beyond a quoted 7–15 day delivery window, so it is usually reasonable to dispute now if the parcel has not arrived and the seller cannot give a clear, credible new delivery date. The exact point when a dispute is allowed still depends on the marketplace’s complaint window, your payment method, and whether the seller later extended the delivery date in writing.
First, check three things today:
- The order page for the promised delivery window, any revised date, and the current status.
- Tracking for the last real scan, not just the original label creation.
- Your messages with the seller, especially any promise to resend, refund, or “wait a few more days.”
If the order page still shows the original 7–15 day estimate and tracking is stuck or has had no movement for a long time, you have a strong basis to complain now. Do not wait just because the seller keeps saying “it is on the way” without a new delivery date.
What to do next:
- Contact the seller or marketplace and ask for one clear answer: delivery proof, a firm new delivery date, or a refund.
- Include the order number, tracking number, quoted 7–15 day promise, and the fact that 45 days have already passed.
- Save screenshots of the order page, tracking history, and every message. These are the most useful evidence if you need to escalate.
If the parcel is marked “delivered” but you did not receive it, treat that as a different problem:
- Ask the carrier for proof of delivery, such as a delivery scan, photo, or signature.
- Check whether it was left with a neighbour, reception, parcel locker, or another address detail.
- Then dispute the delivery proof if it does not match your address or name.
If the seller gave you a later promised date after the original 7–15 day estimate, use that later date instead. In that case, the delay may not be “unreasonable” until that new date passes.
The one missing fact that matters most is whether your marketplace or payment provider has a complaint or dispute deadline. Check the order, payment, or protection section for any wording about “delivery problem,” “item not received,” “buyer protection,” or a claim deadline, and open the case before that window closes.
If you paid by card or another payment service, keep the seller dispute going and also note the payment reference in case you later need to ask your bank or provider about a separate payment dispute. The bank process and the marketplace process are not always the same.
Practical tip: take a screenshot of the tracking page today, because the last visible scan and status wording are often the fastest way to show that the parcel has been stuck for too long.